TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE

Don't allow what you feel people feel about you affect how you feel about yourself.



Most people will not have the right feelings about you.

Most people will judge you by your mistakes and inabilities.

Some will have a limited vision of what you can achieve.

Some will see you as inadequate and unworthy.



Someone sometime told me I didn't know how to teach people.

She felt I didn't have what it takes to impact knowledge into people. This was just how she felt about me and I allowed it affect how I felt about myself.



Then subconsciously as I grew older, I started seeing myself as someone who couldn't teach.

Those words formed a wall of limitations around me.

Whenever I tried teaching people, and the people find it difficult following up with the teaching, those voices will now start reminding me that I didn't know how to teach!

And most times I will just call off the teaching process or I'll keep trying and struggling, but I had my mindset defeated already.



Now, people will say different things to you. Some will tell you: you are not qualified, you are not beautiful, you are too slim or too fat, you can never change, you don't know to do a particular thing, doctors will even diagnose and label you with a medical condition.

But we shouldn't let the doctor's report on our health become the reality in our life.

Just keep saying to yourself "I will be fine" and you will definitely be fine.



People's inability to see beauty in you does not change the fact that you are beautiful.

In one of our e-books I wrote "God is beautiful and luckily for me I was created in his own image".

People's inability to see a star in you doesn't mean you can't shine.

Your family, friends, loved ones and people around may not even believe in you. They may not understand how hard you been trying to become a better you and that's ever reason you have to personally take charge of your life.



Don't allow your life to be controlled by people's opinion and feelings.



Most people are just good at just seeing and saying negative things about other people, but you have the ability to remain positive because it is your life and you have the right to live a beautiful life.



Words are powerful. They have a way of affecting how life treats us and how we respond to life's treatment.



Take charge of your life today.

Les Brown will always say "Don't let people's opinion about you become your reality"



Some people just decide not to see good things from other people and I know you are not like those people.



Your reality is what you create yourself and not what people think concerning you.



Today, I have taught and impacted so many people. I have also helped many develop their knowledge and expertise in so many areas of life despite someone's negative opinion about my teaching ability.

I took charge of my own life.

I didn't let those words totally defeat me rather I took it up as a challenge and it made me want to work and personally improve myself.



Finally, I urge you to take full charge of your life.

While others are feeling like they don't deserve love, care and a better life because of what people feel about them and while some are giving up on their dreams and in life because someone said they weren't going to make it: at that point, look unto God and let him help you take full charge of this life has given to you.



"Don't allow what you feel people feel about you affect how you feel about yourself, take charge of your life today!"



By Johnson Crystal

From Hopeful Me Network.

www.ahopefulme.com