WORK CONTINUES AFTER MARRIAGE

Get married to someone who loves and appreciates your career and what you do for a living.



As a computer programmer, I'll need a partner who has at least basic knowledge in programming.

Even if she doesn't have, I'll make out time to teach her or enroll her in computer classes.

I know it sounds funny and weird but that's the best way to combine your career, your work and your family, because each of them will take a huge part of your life.



"I choose to get married to someone who can be a part in what I do not because I choose to be so demanding but because of the progress and fulfilment I wish to have in my relationship and work."



Now, I might stay awake most nights on my computer and if my wife doesn't understand programming or like people who "press computer too much", she'll find it difficult coping with me and might eventually misjudge my work to be something else.

Whereas she should be helping me debug my codes.



Same applies to me. If my wife is a lawyer, doctor or any other profession, I'll spend time with her understanding what her career is all about and learning the things I have to learn.

I might be the only one to give her the best ideas on how to win her case as a lawyer or a technique on how to handle her patients in the hospital.



Imagine a family where the wife can play video games and do sports and on the other hand, the husband can cook very well and also take care of children. They will feel connected always and will have more understanding for each other.



I have not been married before but I feel this is so true.

From my little experience with friends, family members and colleagues I can tell what makes the difference in every relationship.



Most successful business men make their wives their co-founder, CEO, personal assistant etc depending on the nature of their job. Because the best option or replacement they can ever have is someone they have decided to spend the rest of their life with.



So all am saying is "Work continues after Marriage".

Don't get married to someone who has decided not to appreciate you, your hobby, your work and what you believe in.

Get married to someone who can be your partner, teammate, friend and also your lover.



Your career will take a great part of your life and so will marriage. And in order to balance the two, your spouse should know and love what you do and vice versa.

Give to him or her the business ideas, advice and support no one else would ever give.



And finally, if you are in a relationship or already married to someone who doesn't like your career.

Make sure your career is a decent one and let him/her see reasons why it's worth appreciating. I believe with the help of God, things will turn out well.



Finally, finally, finally, this is the last finally, ladies don't get scared of coming closer because I just said my partner will know programming. Programming isn't difficult, anyone can handle it.

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Thank you for reading, see you same time, same station!



I am Johnson Crystal, a speaker and a writer from HopefulMeNetwork.

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