WHAT WILL YOU CALL HIM?

Pet names and love names are no longer meant for special people.

I realized that as young people, we find it very easy attaching so much care in the names we call people



"We have technically exhausted all the names we are supposed to call either our husband or wife when we get married, on people who don't literally worth it."



A cab or bus driver will transport a lady without charging her money, she'll then reply "I love you honey, Thanks sweetheart, Thanks love etc"

A guy will receive an assistance from a lady and will respond by saying "Thank you my love".



The annoying part is that some of these names don't fit in, they don't match, some sound awkward, Some are names of food we eat, while some sound very funny.

Pet/Love names like "Boo-boo, Babylicious, Honey Bunny, Pumpkin, Sugar plum, Tomatoes, Butterscotch etc" I don't just know who introduced them. But I think some of them should even be removed (🙌 Say "yeee" if you agree with me).

Some are "sugar this.., sugar that..", and we all know too much of sugar can cause someone diabetes.

Well, I won't say am not a victim of this love name crisis.



Actually, it's not bad calling people pet/love names..

But if you could call an ordinary cab driver or someone who isn't too attached to you "Sweetheart, Honey, My love etc" what then will you call your husband or wife when you get married?

Are you even sure you haven't used up of all the names on people that don't deserve it?



In reality, pet/love names don't guarantee a long lasting marriage or relationship.

But I feel it'll be nice calling the person you've decided to spend the rest of your life with a special name.

The beautiful woman am getting married to should take note of that.. (just kidding oh)



Also, Indigenously, I realized that couples who call their spouses their names or the parental name of either of their first issue or just the normal daddy, mummy, have more understanding and love than the ones that do love naming.

Divorcing is not prevalent amongst them.

Well, this may not always be the case, remember I said indigenously.



So all am saying is, reduce the amount of love names you call people except within you; you know they WORTH it and you really MEAN it!

You can call people you don't know or distant people their names or: "Dear, Friend, Guy, Lady, Brother, Sister etc" you know all of them.

To me, its not rude, I think it's quite formal.

It all depends on how you call the names.

We all should learn how to address people cordially.



So, WHAT WILL NAME YOU CALL HIM,

WHAT WILL NAME YOU CALL HER: WHEN YOU GET MARRIED.

IF YOU ARE MARRIED, WHAT NAME DO YOU CALL YOUR SPOUSE?

Whatever it is, make sure it's nice and reserved!



Thank you, see you same time same station but different gist.

I am Johnson Crystal from HopefulMeNetwork.





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