RED FLAGS Growing up as ladies,almost everyday of our lives we encounter different men who lustfully approaches us in one way or the other,some may start by telling you how beautiful you are while others may continue staring at you till they finally structure their tricks to get you.most at times,we see it as normal events that happens at a particular stage we are forgetting the fact that over 80% of these men really don't cherish you .we take it as an opportunity that comes but once in a life time and dwindle into it resulting to an aftermath which becomes an unforgettable experience that brings only but pain and sorrow into our lives Furthermore,most of our ladies think that we have an edge over these men and no matter how cunning they may seem ,you can't fall into their prey but the bitter truth is that when men a man desperately wants to get into you for his own selfish reasons ,he's going to do everything he can to achieve that purpose.they take advantage of every action you take and before you know it ,their mission would have been actualized .they may begin with deceitful declarations like; -I really ,really like you a lot. -This is new ,I haven't felt this way before. -Your are my dream girl,you have all the qualties of a perfect girlfriend . -I will never hurt you. Ladies,we should note that there is more to attraction than just what nature does to your brain whenever it sees certain physical traits. A real man who values you will respect you ,he will always find fault in you just to correct you.he know the right things to say at the right time,he will always protect you .on a second thought ,why do you think our parents corrects us more often compared to the sweet words that say. Its had to put in a few words or sentences but these days ,a lot of things are more about what you are not than what you are.nobody is perfect in life ,we should note that he who corrects you, values and respects you and definitely will hurt you at that moment but in the long run we will begin to see the positive side of those things . They say prevention is better than cure, don't be too over excited when we are being praised by an individual ,instead you should pause and have a rethink if that person is doing more harm than good to you. Note : if your relationship is too smooth and easy going...it's definitely a red flag -If your partner never correct you instead he showers you with the sweetest word in the dictionary ...dear it's a red flag -If a guy is being too nice and over caring to you .it's a red flag -If your partner supports you even in your wrong doing .it's red flag. The sweetest part of a relationship is hurting each other and reconciling.a relationship should never be smooth for comfort . we should learn and take things into consideration .always be eager to listen to your mistakes and take corrections than exciting but teasing words that won't add much value into your life's. In summary ,pay attention to that man that corrects you more often, connect on a more intimate level ,avoid relationship pitfalls and in general ,develop a God empowered relationship #icare #touchinglives ©omahofficial